Ron Heneley
It’s getting tougher and tougher to search out actual mentors.
I go searching, and nearly all of what’s on the market right this moment are the blind main the blind.
Folks simply don’t do their due diligence anymore.
They blindly settle for what they’ve been advised with out verifying its efficacy.
Let me share with you 3 magic phrases my grandpa gave to me that can serve you nicely:
“Belief, however confirm!”
You can’t take the danger of accepting data at face worth.
It was dangerous sufficient with individual to individual conversations however social media has poured fuel on the fool fireplace!
For sensationalism, folks take what they heard yesterday, from one more nitwit, put their spin on it, and pump it out as content material.
There’s the idea of lining up 30 folks in a circle, whispering a sentence to the individual subsequent to you, having them repeat the sentence to the individual subsequent to them, on and on down the road.
By the point the thirtieth individual repeats what they heard again to you, it’s no the place close to what you stated to the primary individual.
The identical precept is happening right this moment with the plethora of self-proclaimed gurus on the market who’ve been in enterprise for about 7 minutes however they’re providing you with all of the solutions.
Sounds nice Ron, however how do you discover the fitting mentor?
1) They’ve a clear previous.
They’ve been round some time. They didn’t simply immediately seem. You are able to do a Google search and see their expertise. You may see what others are saying about them.
2) They offer away numerous worth.
They freely share their experiences with time examined concepts and confirmed methods with out attempting to promote you one thing.
3) They don’t simply promote you the dream.
In contrast to the pretend gurus on the market, they share the great, the dangerous, the completely satisfied, and the unhappy. It’s not all sunshine and rainbows. Together with prospects, a real mentor will present you the snares and pitfalls.
4) They’re humble.
They don’t continuously publish photos of their mansions, yachts, and fancy vehicles. They’re revered for what they do, and who they’re, not what they’ve.
5) They’re worth centered. (I’ve heard this time period earlier than 🙂 )
They sincerely need to enable you obtain your goals. They meet you the place you might be and assist level, information, and direct you to the place YOU need to go.
These are just some strategies to get you began in your search.
It doesn’t matter what, please, Please, PLEASE do your due diligence and NEVER blindly observe!
As Jim Rohn stated, “Be a pupil, not a follower.”
Make darn positive the recommendation, the mentoring, the teaching, the steerage you’re getting is strong and actually comes from actual folks doing actual issues.
Not these idiots who received began yesterday and now assume they’ve all of the solutions.
The knowledge of the ages is to not be ridiculed.
Karma NEVER sleeps.
The common legal guidelines NEVER change.
They’re as fixed because the Northern star.
I really like you all, and in case you’re studying this, I’ll enable you any means I can.
Make it a GREAT day my buddies 
